Godrej has been one brand which one can always find in our household. Their products are not only safe but give amazing results. So on the occasion of Mother's Day Godrej asked us to elaborate on why one's best adviser is always their mother.
My mother has always been my first expert for anything and everything. From choosing a dress to choosing a career she has always been one true guide and I cannot thank her enough for being there always.
When I passed my 12th exams, I was looking for
engineering courses. My entrance exam results were decent enough and I wanted
to take Mechanical Engineering. This was no lightly taken decision and I spent
two years on this decision. But being a girl, everyone I knew was shocked when
I told them about my decision. Most tried to persuade me to take
"safe" branches like computers or IT. Many said that Mechanical is
not for girls. Everyone, from my father to the stranger I met at one counselling
session in a college, were hell bent to make me change my decision. But I could
not imagine myself in any other branch. Mechanical was and is my calling. I had
spent my childhood plying with Mechanic toys, rockets and cars. However, after
such a response, I was second guessing my decision. I felt sad and seeing this
mother gave me the best advice I ever got. She told me that if this is what you
really and absolutely want then do it. Mute out everyone else and follow your
heart. She even convinced my father and supported me till the end. Last week I
graduated with an 8.9 GPA and it is all thanks to my mom. Had she not supported
me and encouraged me to follow my heart, I probably would have changed to
Computers or IT and detested it all along.
Another, incident where my mom's advice helped me
a lot was when I in 5th grade. There was a boy in my class who was very famous
for being notorious. Teacher opted out of teaching our class just because of
him. Due to all this, he didn't have many friends in school and I saw him
eating lunch all by himself. When I informed my mother about this she told me
join him wherever I see him eating lunch alone from now on. I was hesitant at
first but she insisted that I do as asked. So next day me and my group of about
five girls were eating lunch in the school ground and I saw him eating lunch
behind a tree. I asked my friends to invite him but no one wanted to. After a
lot of convincing they decided that he could eat with us but I had to
invite him. Hence, I went, a little terrified, over to invite him. At first he
thought I was playing a prank but my reputation was not of a prankster so he
eventually agreed. He came over and had lunch with us. Turns out he was quite
funny. He told great jokes and over time we became good friends. I am in touch
with him even today.
So, had my mother not encouraged me to be friends
with this person, I would have never got to know him. I would have missed up on a
friend.
These are just two of the many instances where my
mother’s advice has helped me find my way. Without her I would be completely
lost in this world. And I love you mom from the bottom of my heart. Happy Mother’s
Day!!!